September 02, 2005
I know that in the really big pokerparty games all of this may not be that much of an issue. Because there everybody knows how to play at least to a certain degree, and because most of the regulars have been around for quite some time, they are used to all different kinds of behavior, and therefore are not that easily offended anymore. Still, in my opinion proper behavior should start at the top.
So not only should I adjust my starting requirements and start folding more often, I should also try to improve my pokerparty play after the flop." If others perceive you as a serious person, as someone who is trying to analyze everything that's going on, then you might get players like this to think more about the game and you might have cost yourself a lot of money.
Even though I am known to play extremely tight, there are still some players who actually want to play with me: they know I won't embarrass them, they know I will try to create a pleasant and friendly atmosphere at the table, they know I don't whine, don't hit-and-run and they know I'm willing to build a big pot occasionally with a lot less than the nuts- I suggest you try the same.
Will he seriously think that in your opinion 84 offsuit is such a nice hand? Do you think that just because he plays pokerparty bad, he doesn't know that 84 is a piece of cheese, a trash hand, garbage, and that trying to outdraw pocket aces with them is plain suicide? So how do you think he will take it when you say "nice hand"? Will he think: "Oh, what a nice guy. He doesn't mind losing with aces because he noticed I had a nice hand as well" or will he think the guy with the aces is giving him the needle and is trying to ridicule his play in front of everybody?